DM: Proposal Gone Wrong

[DreadPirateWes]

I had to turn it off about the 2/5 mark. It wasn't embarrassing as much as it was annoying. Was this made right after the early 80s film Valley Girls? Surely no one in America talks as silly as that girl.

Oh meh gaaaawd. We talked uhbaht this before and you know I want to be waned und dahned.

I'm whiter than the French flag at the start of a major conflict, but this was too much. This HAD to be fake.

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/2006/02/proposalwrong.html

[BassGuitar25]

radi-owned?

[Keith98]

The idea on the guy’s part was not bad at all. In his mind he is letting everyone know at once that he loves this woman and wants to marry her. She is also an American woman, and is only looking out for what she wants. She like most American woman have been force feed what a man is suppose to do and not do all their life. We raise women to be disrespectful and downright cold hearted. There are very few women out there who are cool, and willing to meet a man halfway on things. They want their lives to play out like some unrealistic romance novel. We as humans make mistakes you roll with it and adapt.

She could have been cool about. She could have been like yes I will marry you, and she could have said, "but I want to go some place special with you tonight". You know something along those lines. I think she had in her mind how it would play out. I think this is just selfish, and she was so cruel to the guy. I believe the guy is much better off not marrying her anyways.

On a personal note, I am not trying to sound like a woman hater. There are some good ones out there who are funny, and look at things from a guys’ point of view. I am not sure how everyone feels about this, but I feel with the relationship I am in now moderation is the key. If you’re a guy just don't hang out with the woman every chance you get. By limiting contact you keep the woman wanting instead of her getting bored and making up crap to complain about. Also, if you’re a guy rarely the good ones are good in bed. It is usually the mean women who are, so it is best to date two women. A guy should have a woman to hang out with once in awhile, and a woman to sleep with once in awhile.

It may sound like I use women, but women in America have drove me to this. The women I have dated have clearly stamped out any good intentions of mine, but being a man you must adapt and make the best of the hand your given.

[Refuse]

The idea on the guy’s part was not bad at all. In his mind he is letting everyone know at once that he loves this woman and wants to marry her. She is also an American woman, and is only looking out for what she wants. She like most American woman have been force feed what a man is suppose to do and not do all their life. We raise women to be disrespectful and downright cold hearted. There are very few women out there who are cool, and willing to meet a man halfway on things. They want their lives to play out like some unrealistic romance novel. We as humans make mistakes you roll with it and adapt.

She could have been cool about. She could have been like yes I will marry you, and she could have said, "but I want to go some place special with you tonight". You know something along those lines. I think she had in her mind how it would play out. I think this is just selfish, and she was so cruel to the guy. I believe the guy is much better off not marrying her anyways.

On a personal note, I am not trying to sound like a woman hater. There are some good ones out there who are funny, and look at things from a guys’ point of view. I am not sure how everyone feels about this, but I feel with the relationship I am in now moderation is the key. If you’re a guy just don't hang out with the woman every chance you get. By limiting contact you keep the woman wanting instead of her getting bored and making up crap to complain about. Also, if you’re a guy rarely the good ones are good in bed. It is usually the mean women who are, so it is best to date two women. A guy should have a woman to hang out with once in awhile, and a woman to sleep with once in awhile.

It may sound like I use women, but women in America have drove me to this. The women I have dated have clearly stamped out any good intentions of mine, but being a man you must adapt and make the best of the hand your given.



Why do dumbasses like you always try to come off like they've done surveys all over the U.S....like they're some sort of authorative figure on the subject of women. You've been with what, 2..maybe 3 women?

They way I see it, if you really don't have a clue what you're talking about, don't talk about it.

[Keith98]

I am sure in some cases the same can be said for men. I don't think I am that far off base though, and it's just from my experiences with women. I am no expert. I am just saying what I have noticed, and works in my case.

[Garbeck]

Keith, it was fake. Youre taking this way too seriously.

On another note, I wouldnt care how I would be proposed to. As long as someone wants to marry me thats all that matters. not how he asks.

edit: I kinda skimmed over your lecture the first time, but this time I actually read the whole thing and you seem like a selfish asshole.

[Keith98]

Women do love assholes so I guess it's not so bad.

[Garbeck]

Women do love assholes so I guess it's not so bad.


Sometimes true, but we dont want to marry them.

[Keith98]

Who says I want to get married.

[dj TASO]

The idea on the guy’s part was not bad at all. In his mind he is letting everyone know at once that he loves this woman and wants to marry her. She is also an American woman, and is only looking out for what she wants. She like most American woman have been force feed what a man is suppose to do and not do all their life. We raise women to be disrespectful and downright cold hearted. There are very few women out there who are cool, and willing to meet a man halfway on things. They want their lives to play out like some unrealistic romance novel. We as humans make mistakes you roll with it and adapt.

She could have been cool about. She could have been like yes I will marry you, and she could have said, "but I want to go some place special with you tonight". You know something along those lines. I think she had in her mind how it would play out. I think this is just selfish, and she was so cruel to the guy. I believe the guy is much better off not marrying her anyways.

On a personal note, I am not trying to sound like a woman hater. There are some good ones out there who are funny, and look at things from a guys’ point of view. I am not sure how everyone feels about this, but I feel with the relationship I am in now moderation is the key. If you’re a guy just don't hang out with the woman every chance you get. By limiting contact you keep the woman wanting instead of her getting bored and making up crap to complain about. Also, if you’re a guy rarely the good ones are good in bed. It is usually the mean women who are, so it is best to date two women. A guy should have a woman to hang out with once in awhile, and a woman to sleep with once in awhile.

It may sound like I use women, but women in America have drove me to this. The women I have dated have clearly stamped out any good intentions of mine, but being a man you must adapt and make the best of the hand your given.

I agree about the women thing but dating 2 at a time? You're setting up for people to get hurt along with yourself.

[Garbeck]

Who says I want to get married.


You will eventually

[h4z4rd]

Just curious, how was it determined to be fake?

[Seagull]

Just curious, how was it determined to be fake?

It's possibly fake, but seems 100% authentic to me. Reactions were very real.

I think that other poster is just being a dumbass.

[h4z4rd]

Well I thought it was real, and seriously that is one selfish bitch, not to mention the fact that just hearing her voice makes me cringe.

[Seagull]

Yeah, I know what you mean.

Personally though, I think it was kind of a dumb idea to propose over the phone. Kind of a nice idea with the family and all, but stupid at the same time.

[Keith98]

It’s just your typical woman for you. I mean just throw out reason all together. I love it when women claim to be so much smarter than men. I just hear it all the time about all the dumb stuff guys do from women.

My counter argument to this is what have women done to move society forward? Men make all the major world-changing inventions. For example, men invented motorized transportation, flight, computers, atomic power, and countless other things. I honestly don’t think women have invented a single thing that is world changing. If they are so smart how come they don’t come up with something of use.

I am sorry for going off topic, but women are not nearly as smart as they claim to be. This woman on the phone is a clear example of it.

[deathmaster851]

It’s just your typical woman for you. I mean just throw out reason all together. I love it when women claim to be so much smarter than men. I just hear it all the time about all the dumb stuff guys do from women.

My counter argument to this is what have women done to move society forward? Men make all the major world-changing inventions. For example, men invented motorized transportation, flight, computers, atomic power, and countless other things. I honestly don’t think women have invented a single thing that is world changing. If they are so smart how come they don’t come up with something of use.

I am sorry for going off topic, but women are not nearly as smart as they claim to be. This woman on the phone is a clear example of it.

I think you should shut the hell up right about now... Or kill yourself if you're up to it.. Hopefully the latter. Society doesn't need chauvinistic assholes like yourself.

[Squalla]

I think you should shut the hell up right about now... Or kill yourself if you're up to it.. Hopefully the latter. Society doesn't need chauvinistic assholes like yourself.
Are you a woman?

Seriously, though, I'm not saying Keith's right, that women are all dumb and only men are capable of doing smart stuff, but he does have a point.

[purpzey]

Keith, it was fake. Youre taking this way too seriously.

On another note, I wouldnt care how I would be proposed to. As long as someone wants to marry me thats all that matters. not how he asks.

edit: I kinda skimmed over your lecture the first time, but this time I actually read the whole thing and you seem like a selfish asshole.

I'm agreed I think it was staged in some way. . .

[jeffrok]

It's possibly fake, but seems 100% authentic to me. Reactions were very real.

I think that other poster is just being a dumbass.

REAL? Ok, time to [/sarcasm].

That was the fakest sounding reaction, especially on the guy's part. He was reacting negatively, almost before his "girlfriend" opened her mouth.

[A550RGY]

FAKE. Every time the DJ tries to salvage their dignity by ending the call, they keep going on and on, because pranksters want to get as much airtime as possible. Some of the reactions and "lines" ocassionally sound real, but even mediocre actors get lucky once in a while. The guy sounds less believable than the girl because he often takes a half second too long to react to the DJs and his "girl" and as we've all experienced while growing up, this is a telltale sign of a lie. Sometimes his reaction are even too fast. When people are hurt they often have to pause and are at a loss for words, but he always had something to say (a half second later) as though he knew it was a comedy bit and had to keep imrpovising to keep it interesting.

This clip totally set off my BS detector.

[PMD]

I knew this was going to backfire.

What never ceases to amaze me is that people always claim that something appearing on this site is fake. It could be fake... but it seems like almost everything on this site has accusations of fakery leveled against it.

[Ral]

I don't know if it's fake or not, but I live in California and there ARE real people who talk like this woman. And yes, the rest of us make fun of them.

There isn't enough context about this relationship to tell who was really being the jerk here. Her reaction showed a lack of class and civility, considering the public audience. But I would not have wanted my bf to propose to me in such a way, either. To me it seems cheap and attention whorish to do something like that on the radio.

We don't know how this guy is the rest of the time. He may have a history of doing things like this that embarrass her, or that she finds demeaning, and maybe she's talked to him about it before and he just doesn't get it.

It's still not as good as the one where a woman calls her bf on the radio and another woman answers. :eek:

[A550RGY]

I knew this was going to backfire.

What never ceases to amaze me is that people always claim that something appearing on this site is fake. It could be fake... but it seems like almost everything on this site has accusations of fakery leveled against it.

True, but those are idiots who never bother to provide clear reasons why they think it's fake.

[Eegoog]

I honestly don’t think women have invented a single thing that is world changing. If they are so smart how come they don’t come up with something of use.

I think a woman invented White-out. That is world changing IMO

[Joey-Clemenza]

What a cunt.

[tonysonya69]

i dont know if the proposal was real or not but the radio station is 100 percent real fm 97(96.9 0n your fm dial)is a radio station out of lancaster pa. where i live.. sooo it could be real...

[Slothman]

It’s just your typical woman for you. I mean just throw out reason all together. I love it when women claim to be so much smarter than men. I just hear it all the time about all the dumb stuff guys do from women.

My counter argument to this is what have women done to move society forward? Men make all the major world-changing inventions. For example, men invented motorized transportation, flight, computers, atomic power, and countless other things. I honestly don’t think women have invented a single thing that is world changing. If they are so smart how come they don’t come up with something of use.

I am sorry for going off topic, but women are not nearly as smart as they claim to be. This woman on the phone is a clear example of it.

Yes, but women have only had equal rights (speaking about US and Europe) for a relativly short time. Even then, women where still looked down on. Discrimination is a powerfull thing, you cant do anything for society if society wont let you.

[Captain Kate]

It’s just your typical woman for you. I mean just throw out reason all together. I love it when women claim to be so much smarter than men. I just hear it all the time about all the dumb stuff guys do from women.

My counter argument to this is what have women done to move society forward? Men make all the major world-changing inventions. For example, men invented motorized transportation, flight, computers, atomic power, and countless other things. I honestly don’t think women have invented a single thing that is world changing. If they are so smart how come they don’t come up with something of use.

I am sorry for going off topic, but women are not nearly as smart as they claim to be. This woman on the phone is a clear example of it.


You know Keith, I can see why your relationships don't work out....

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it's not all women you've been with (all what, 4 or 5?) and perhaps it's just that you're an asshole? Yes, I'm a woman, no, I'm not some feminist dyke, but I hate when men with dating problems blame the woman for everything. Milions of men marry women every year and they're happy. I think the problem is you.

[purpzey]

i dont know if the proposal was real or not but the radio station is 100 percent real fm 97(96.9 0n your fm dial)is a radio station out of lancaster pa. where i live.. sooo it could be real...

No one is questioning whether or not the station exists. We are question the veracity of the two callers and (possibly) the DJs and/or producers.

Radio shows are notorious for this sort of thing. It's much easier on radio than it is on T.V. No real way of knowing I suppose, but to me it seemed stage not enough emotion involved.

The girl was too pissed the guy wasn't pissed/upset enough.

[Keith98]

You know Keith, I can see why your relationships don't work out....

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it's not all women you've been with (all what, 4 or 5?) and perhaps it's just that you're an asshole? Yes, I'm a woman, no, I'm not some feminist dyke, but I hate when men with dating problems blame the woman for everything. Milions of men marry women every year and they're happy. I think the problem is you.


I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about. The stuff your saying has nothing to do with what I have stated in previous posts. They say once a person goes personal in an argument they lose the argument. Instead of you trying to produce a reasonable valid argument, you have chosen to avoid it completely. I can understand the dodging when you have nothing to support your claim.

Let me set something straight here. I have never said I have dating problems. I have rather good relationships in fact. I guess me having an opinion on a subject makes me an asshole. I guess me thinking for myself makes me an asshole. The posts I have made have been mature, and based on my personal experiences and some are facts.

The fact is divorce rates in the U.S are 51%. I can assure you not all those divorces are based on men. The fact is women need to realize their shit stinks to. Women, in general, need to stop thinking their life will play out like some romance novel. The idea of me having to proceed to do a series of events to win a woman over is unrealistic.

The fact is women are not truly equal to men. I am not saying from a law standpoint. I am saying in daily life. Women want special treatment, but you cannot have special treatment and expect to be equal. The notion that women need to be held up on a pestle is down right ludicrous. I say both parties need to be on the same wavelength and split the responsibility of the relationship down the middle. I have seen far too many married men whose soul purpose is to serve their women. If the man has any thoughts of his own they are shot down and called stupid because they don't line up with the woman’s ideology.

I was not put on this planet to be a slave to a woman. I am not here to serve a woman's every desire. I am not here to obey at ever snap of their fingers. A woman who wants a relationship like that needs a dog to obey and a vibrator not a man. Do not sit there and tell me though that women don’t try or do break men. It all comes down to control. I personal don't want to control a woman. I am not going to lie to you though. I used my intelligence in my favor sometimes. I have realized certain things in my experiences, and I have learned from them. The experiences allow me to avoid being controlled. The fact is I am just protecting myself.

If I was told my parachute has a 51% chance to open, like divorce rates in America, I sure as hell wouldn't jump. I am sure as hell not going to get married until women play on the same field as men, and they get their heads out of the clouds.

[Y-M-C-A]

Hey Keith:

http://inventors.about.com/library/blwomeninventors.htm

Google-Power!

[Keith98]

Hey Keith:

http://inventors.about.com/library/blwomeninventors.htm

Google-Power!

I guess you didn't read my post. I said world-changing inventions. I am not stupid enough to make a bold statement without looking into it first. I know how to type women inventions into a search engine. I know full well there are women inventors, and I know some are rather important. I am simply saying if women are so smart they should be able to blow anything men have invented away. I think I have moved this topic to far of course from the thread title. I think the discussion of the topic at hand is best saved for another thread more relevant.

[mike0006]

Why do dumbasses like you always try to come off like they've done surveys all over the U.S....like they're some sort of authorative figure on the subject of women. You've been with what, 2..maybe 3 women?

They way I see it, if you really don't have a clue what you're talking about, don't talk about it.

3 1/2...but that midget was pretty tall!

[dj TASO]

I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about. The stuff your saying has nothing to do with what I have stated in previous posts. They say once a person goes personal in an argument they lose the argument. Instead of you trying to produce a reasonable valid argument, you have chosen to avoid it completely. I can understand the dodging when you have nothing to support your claim.

Let me set something straight here. I have never said I have dating problems. I have rather good relationships in fact. I guess me having an opinion on a subject makes me an asshole. I guess me thinking for myself makes me an asshole. The posts I have made have been mature, and based on my personal experiences and some are facts.

The fact is divorce rates in the U.S are 51%. I can assure you not all those divorces are based on men. The fact is women need to realize their shit stinks to. Women, in general, need to stop thinking their life will play out like some romance novel. The idea of me having to proceed to do a series of events to win a woman over is unrealistic.

The fact is women are not truly equal to men. I am not saying from a law standpoint. I am saying in daily life. Women want special treatment, but you cannot have special treatment and expect to be equal. The notion that women need to be held up on a pestle is down right ludicrous. I say both parties need to be on the same wavelength and split the responsibility of the relationship down the middle. I have seen far too many married men whose soul purpose is to serve their women. If the man has any thoughts of his own they are shot down and called stupid because they don't line up with the woman’s ideology.

I was not put on this planet to be a slave to a woman. I am not here to serve a woman's every desire. I am not here to obey at ever snap of their fingers. A woman who wants a relationship like that needs a dog to obey and a vibrator not a man. Do not sit there and tell me though that women don’t try or do break men. It all comes down to control. I personal don't want to control a woman. I am not going to lie to you though. I used my intelligence in my favor sometimes. I have realized certain things in my experiences, and I have learned from them. The experiences allow me to avoid being controlled. The fact is I am just protecting myself.

If I was told my parachute has a 51% chance to open, like divorce rates in America, I sure as hell wouldn't jump. I am sure as hell not going to get married until women play on the same field as men, and they get their heads out of the clouds.

Women are nothing but games. The only winning move is not to play.

[Eegoog]

I guess you didn't read my post. I said world-changing inventions. I am not stupid enough to make a bold statement without looking into it first. I know how to type women inventions into a search engine. I know full well there are women inventors, and I know some are rather important. I am simply saying if women are so smart they should be able to blow anything men have invented away. I think I have moved this topic to far of course from the thread title. I think the discussion of the topic at hand is best saved for another thread more relevant.

Asshole, one of the most world changing events was the atomic bomb. If it wasn't for Marie Sklodowska Curie this along with ground breaking medical treaments would not be possible. Why dont you shut the fuck up, you're starting to make a big ass out of yourself. Go back to your lover goat and fuck your other gf the sheep in the next stall.

[Fortune]

Ok im a pretty young lad myself and from experience Keith does show some quality/respectful points (sorry ladies), I admit he does sound a bit sexiest at times maybe he has had bad experiences in the past. Also keith even how fun that would sound having two women at the same time you have to have some respect for the women, and messing them both about at the same time is totally out of order as it will always end up in someone getting hurt, and what happens if you do find that special person you will have to tell her all those special moments you have with her have been a lie as you have been seeing another women at the same time?

I have seen a few times that women do want you to act like your in a romance novel which I tend to go along with to avoid argument sake and because it quite fun to do, but lately it seems that after you have read the novel what is left to do? There is no flare or passion in the relationship after the novel has ended and most the time it seems to be a bad ending not alot of "happily ever afters" unless you work your arse off for it which at my age there is aparently no such thing as "True Love" as I am "Too Young".

Back to the topic, that women on the air like keith and others have said could of come half way as if she truely cared about that guy (if it is true or not) then she would of not made him look like a prat on live radio with both sets of parents listening in, she could of at least said even if she didnt know "Maybe, lets talk about it over a meal tonight darling" or words to that meaning whats the harm in that?

So women out there what was so bad for her just to say that so her "man" didnt look like a tit on the radio? Maybe I am too young to understand but even being young I have had a very long relationship.

[Keith98]

Asshole, one of the most world changing events was the atomic bomb. If it wasn't for Marie Sklodowska Curie this along with ground breaking medical treaments would not be possible. Why dont you shut the fuck up, you're starting to make a big ass out of yourself. Go back to your lover goat and fuck your other gf the sheep in the next stall.

This is some mature thought provoking writing right here. When I write I usually picture myself expressing a point to a group of people. Picture for a moment this guy standing up after what I said saying this. I could be completely wrong in my argument, but I bet people would side with me more easily because of how I conducted myself.

Fortune I appreciate the post. I am not saying that because you agree with me in some areas. I am saying this because your post brings something to the table other than trying to cut me down in a personal manner. Anyways, I like to address the subject of dating two women. I never said I lied to the women. The women know full well I date other people, and I come out with that on the first date. They are free to date other people as well. If people get the idea yet the whole process prevents things from getting stale. If women choose not to date other men this is her choice not mine. If a woman decides she cannot handle the situation this is up to her as well. I stated how I am going to be right from the get go.

Also, from a guys stand point there is some very good benefits to dating two women. The first one is if they ever meet each other. The two women meeting each other will often time happen at some point or another. If the one woman is slightly more attractive than the other it can lead to some surprising benefits. Women are so self-conscience they will try and out do each other. It is rather interesting. I of course don't make them behave the way they do after meeting each other, and I don't shove the other woman into the others face. I could keep going on and on about how it plays out, but I think you get the idea. Women are their own worst enemy lets just say that.

I am not a player. First off, I tell the complete truth. I don't tell both that I love them or anything like that. It all plays out by their own doing, and I am no responsible for how each of them conducts themselves. They are grown adults, and they can make up their own minds. You would be surprised how much passion can be developed by a little jealousy.

[Slothman]

This is some mature thought provoking writing right here. When I write I usually picture myself expressing a point to a group of people. Picture for a moment this guy standing up after what I said saying this. I could be completely wrong in my argument, but I bet people would side with me more easily because of how I conducted myself.

Fortune I appreciate the post. I am not saying that because you agree with me in some areas. I am saying this because your post brings something to the table other than trying to cut me down in a personal manner. Anyways, I like to address the subject of dating two women. I never said I lied to the women. The women know full well I date other people, and I come out with that on the first date. They are free to date other people as well. If people get the idea yet the whole process prevents things from getting stale. If women choose not to date other men this is her choice not mine. If a woman decides she cannot handle the situation this is up to her as well. I stated how I am going to be right from the get go.

Also, from a guys stand point there is some very good benefits to dating two women. The first one is if they ever meet each other. The two women meeting each other will often time happen at some point or another. If the one woman is slightly more attractive than the other it can lead to some surprising benefits. Women are so self-conscience they will try and out do each other. It is rather interesting. I of course don't make them behave the way they do after meeting each other, and I don't shove the other woman into the others face. I could keep going on and on about how it plays out, but I think you get the idea. Women are their own worst enemy lets just say that.

I am not a player. First off, I tell the complete truth. I don't tell both that I love them or anything like that. It all plays out by their own doing, and I am no responsible for how each of them conducts themselves. They are grown adults, and they can make up their own minds. You would be surprised how much passion can be developed by a little jealousy.

im sorry, im a complete idiot, i just now realized your being sarcastic.

:lol: good one man, you got me, and to think, i thought someone could be THAT ignorant:lol:

[wordelo]

didn't bother reading all the posts because they are so long and I don't have the time but I say this...

any of you who agree with any views laid out by David DeAngelo are correct.

don't know who David deangelo is?

go here.

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

[goatkeeper]

Not only was it fake, but it was reaaaaally bad acting. Normally I give these things the benefit of the doubt but that entire thing sounded 100% staged-
"oh my god....I'm just...Ok, listen I'm just gonna go"
"but, but everyones listening! even your par-""OhMygodmomimsosorry!!"