PlusCaChange wrote: ↑
Wed Sep 13, 2017 8:05 pm
The reason assholes have multiple women.
Yeah, the reason why guys other guys would call assholes are so attractive to (particularly young, inexperienced and/or stupid) women is because inconsiderate, arrogant behavior is also high status behavior. The funny thing is in the end it doesn't matter if the guy actually has the status he pretends to, if it draws women then it will draw more women because that's what works to get those genes passed on. From the POV of the woman's genes a good fake is the same as real.
We continue to deny these baser instincts have impact in today's humanity. Society prefers to label them as too primitive for our current civilization.
We all have these thoughts, feelings and instincts. Some of which should be avoided as they are harmful to others. But this doesn't change the fact that these instincts still exist and we are, after all, just human animals. Creatures with instincts that we want to act on but do not because society has trained us.
In some ways we bolster these instincts. We take our young girls, place them on a pedestal, express how they are royalty and nothing is good enough for them. But as a rule society imposes restrictions on acting or even admitting to these underlying drives.